Brent A LaDeau

Brent LaDeau of Brattleboro, beloved husband and father, died at home on December 15, 2023, with family by his side. Brent was born on December 28, 1956 in Claremont, NH to Barbara Jean and Donald LaDeau. He leaves behind Karen (Ferland) LaDeau, his wife of 48 years, his daughters Shannon LaDeau and Hilary Aplin, their spouses April Horton and Jason Aplin, and three grandchildren, Trevor, Dylan and Sophie. His family was always his greatest source of happiness and pride. He is also survived by his mother, Barbara Jean (Whitcomb) Stoughton of York Beach, ME, Michael and Susan LaDeau of NJ, Joanne Stoughton and Herb Henry of ME, Scott LaDeau and Tiffany Shepard of ME, and sisters Lori, Leslie, and Michelle and many nieces and nephews. Brent also leaves behind his faithful canine companion, Lexy. He is predeceased by his father, Donald LaDeau and his stepfather Perley Stoughton.

Brent was known for his kindness and generosity. He was always ready to lend a hand or ear to anyone in need. He enjoyed snowmobiling, fly fishing, and kayaking. He listened to music by his nephew, Jon LaDeau during treatments and enjoyed relaxing to Justin LaDeau’s piano pieces. He fixed everyone’s appliances and loved working on home renovations. He did not like heights but braved ziplines and cliff walks to be with his grandkids. He was a longstanding and active member of the Brattleboro Masonic Lodge. He had many wonderful friends and family and he will be deeply missed by all.

Brent was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in March 2023. He handled his illness with grace and courage. He was ever loving and generous with the time he had. The family will host a Celebration of Life and Masonic service on February 2nd (5-7PM) at Ker Phaneuf, 57 High Street in Brattleboro.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the pancreatic cancer organization, Pancan.org at http://support.pancan.org/goto/BrentLaDeau or to the local Brattleboro Groundworks Collaborative at https://groundworksvt.org/donate/, where Brent intended to volunteer in retirement.

The Cremation Society of New Hampshire has been entrusted with arrangements. To view an online tribute, leave a message of condolence or for more information please visit www.csnh.com.