Joseph P. Kilcullen, 86, passed away peacefully on July 28, 2026, surrounded by his family.

Born on October 26, 1939, Joseph lived a life defined by service, resilience, compassion, and an unwavering love for his family. He was the son of the late William Kilcullen and Alice (McGee) Kilcullen of Scranton, Pennsylvania.

He was preceded in death by his wife and love of his life, Brenda Stratemeyer Kilcullen, and his siblings, William, Robert, Mary Alice, and Martin Kilcullen, all of Scranton, PA.

Joseph proudly served his country in the United States Army during the Korean War era, carrying with him a deep sense of patriotism and dedication throughout his life.

Above all else, Joe cherished his family. He is survived by his children, Kelly Kilcullen (NH), Gillian Hubley (NC), Mary "Kate" Kilcullen (RI), and Margaret Kilcullen (NC). He is also survived by his stepchildren, Peter Stratemeyer and wife Nancy (MA), Katherine Stratemeyer Franz and husband Dave (NH), Jason Stratemeyer and wife Debbie (WA), and Charles Stratemeyer (CO).

Joe was the proud grandfather of Erin Wilkie, Anthony Kilcullen, Alyssa Scobie, Joseph Napli, Victoria Simard, Alexandria DiMarzio, Samantha DiMarzio, Eric Kilcullen, Stephine Brett and husband Travis, Rebekah Ballou, Cecily Ballou, Annika Stratemeyer, Amelia Stratemeyer, Kayleigh Ann Wright, and Brenda Stratemeyer. He was also blessed with fifteen great-grandchildren, as well as many cherished nieces and nephews.

One of Joe's greatest accomplishments was his remarkable recovery journey. He celebrated 44 years of sobriety, and throughout those years devoted himself to helping others find hope, healing, and strength in their own lives. A longtime friend of Bill W's, Joe generously shared his experience, strength, and hope with countless individuals, serving as a mentor, counselor, sponsor, and friend. His compassion and willingness to help others transformed lives and left a lasting impact on his recovery community.

Joe had a special love for the New Hampshire Seacoast and its beaches, where he found peace, joy, and treasured time with family. Whether sharing stories, enjoying the ocean air, or making memories with his children and grandchildren, those moments brought him great happiness.

He will also be remembered for his wonderful sense of humor and playful spirit. Joe was a natural jokester who loved making people laugh. His quick wit, warm smile, and ability to find humor even in difficult times brought comfort and joy to everyone who knew him.

Though he will be deeply missed, Joe's legacy of love, service, recovery, laughter, and devotion to family will live on in the many lives he touched.

A Celebration of Joe's Life will be held on Wednesday, August 12, 2026 from 9:30 a.m. to 12:00pm at the United Methodist Church, Basement Hall, 525 Lafayette Road, Hampton, NH 03842.

In lieu of flowers or memorial donations, Joe's family asks that you honor his memory by supporting your local small businesses and community establishments, something he greatly appreciated throughout his life.

"One day at a time."

The Cremation Society of New Hampshire has been entrusted with arrangements. To view an online tribute, leave a message of condolence or for more information please visit www.csnh.com.