Pamela Kathleen Tarbox-McCarthy, 62 of Londonderry NH, passed early morning of May 27, 2026, peacefully amongst family at her residence in Londonderry NH. Born on March 17th, 1964, in Boston, MA. Pamela was the daughter of George Girard and Pamela Girard of Nashua NH, survived by her daughters Ashlie Lang of Baldwinsville MA, and Samantha McCarthy of Londonderry NH. Dearly missed by her sisters Robin Doucette, Elizabeth O’Sullivan, Kimberly Pennypacker, and Jennifer Tarbox. She is blessed by a grandson — Colin Lang and many nieces and nephews. She is cherished deeply and forever by her husband Joseph McCarthy.

A wonderful wife, a loving mother, a devoted sister, and a pillar of resilience and strength within the entire family. Gone too soon. Pamela enjoyed her daily cup of coffee, smoking cigarettes on the porch staring through the trees and rambling about conspiracy theories and going to the casino every Sunday. She loved to create for her family and was thoughtful about every action. She was a fantastic crocheter who created many heirloom afghans to be passed for generations, she was an exceptional artist from paint to pencil mediums to wood and cement. She accepted challenges without question; they said the brightest flames burn the quickest. A celebration of life will be held at the family’s residence in July, in lieu of flowers, letters and goodbye wishes can be written and shared to healthily grieve this devastating loss.

Assisting with arrangements is the Cremation Society of New Hampshire, Manchester. To view Pamela's online tribute, send condolences to her family, or for more information, visit www.csnh.com